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Mother Comes and Grasps His Right Arm, So the Lash Remains Suspended

2677418229_2026512077_o“When Rav Yosef heard his mother’s footsteps he would say: ‘I will arise before the approaching Shekhinah’” (BT Qiddushin 31b).

“We should first introduce something said by the ancients in regard to those nighttime visions. For we have learned: ‘One who cohabits with his mother in a dream will attain בִּינָה (binah), understanding’ (BT Berakhot 57a), as is written: For you will call בִּינָה (binah), understanding, ‘Mother’ (Proverbs 2:3).’ Here one should examine. If this is because She is mother, fine; then it should have been written as follows: ‘One who sees his mother in a dream will attain understanding.’ But why ‘one who cohabits with’ her? Well, a supernal mystery! For he was transformed from below to above, ascending. At first, he was a son; once he rises above, the tree is overturned and he becomes part of the upper world, ruling over Her, attaining Binah” (Zohar 2:101a, Sava de-Mishpatim).

“Rabbi Yose said, There has never been a father as compassionate to His children as the blessed Holy One. This is indicated by a verse: Not a single word has failed of all His good words… (1 Kings 8:56). Come and see His compassion! If it be said Not a single word has failed of all His words, and nothing more, it would have been better for the world not to have ever been created. But since it says of all His good words, it leaves the bad behind, for He does not want to enact a bad word. And even though He threatens and raises the lash, Mother comes and grasps His right arm, so the lash remains suspended, does not descend, and is not implemented, because both of them share one plan: He by threatening, and She by holding back His right arm [cf. BT Makkot 22a–b]’” (Zohar 2:190b).

And God saw the children of Israel, and God knew (Exodus 2:25). What is and God knew? A parable: A king had a lovely wife, and had several children from her, and he loved them and raised them, but they went out to bad ways [lit., תַרְבּוּת רָעָה (tarbut ra’ah), wicked culture, i.e., foreign culture, cf. Zohar 3:281b–82a (RM)]. He hated them and their mother, and she turned to them and said: ‘My children, why do you do so that your father hates me and you?’ Until they repented and they returned to perform the will of their father. Their father saw this and loved them as before and remembered their mother. This is the meaning of And God saw… and God knew. This is also the meaning of In the midst of years make it known. [In wrath remember compassion] (Habakkuk 3:2)” (Bahir §76).

“A king had a lovely daughter, and others were lusting for her. The king knew about it, but could not fight with those who exposed his daughter to bad ways. He came to his house and warned her, saying, ‘My daughter, give no regard to the words of these enemies and they will not be able to overcome you. Do not leave the house, but do all your work at home. Do not sit idle, even for a single moment. Then they will not be able to see you and harm you.’ There is a single quality in them which departs from a good way and chooses every bad way. When they see man directing himself along a good way, they hate him. Who is he? הַשָׂטָן (Ha-satan), the adversary. Teaching that the blessed Holy One has a quality whose name is רָעָה (ra’ah), Evil [feminine noun]. It is to the north of the blessed Holy One, as is written: Out of the north הָרָעָה (ha-ra’ah), the evil, shall break forth upon all the inhabitants of the land (Jeremiah 1:14)—any evil that comes to all inhabitants of earth comes from the north” (Bahir §162, cf. ibid., §12).

“Come and see: As long as the people are distant from the King’s palace, Matronita, as it were, is distanced with them. Why? Because Matronita did not immediately apply a pint [of discipline] to this son, striking him so that he would follow the straight path. For the King never strikes a person, but rather leaves everything in the hand of the Matronita: to manage the palace and punish the son, guiding him on the straight way toward the King” (Zohar 3:74a).

O fairest of women (Song of Songs 1:8)—fine in kindness, for She bestows kindness upon Her children [Israel] secretly, covertly, and the blessed Holy One is very pleased by all that She does for Her children, even though they don’t deserve it. From here we learn that a father should love and appreciate everything that a mother does for her children secretly, covertly, even though their conduct is improper” (Zohar 3:197b).

 

Yearning of the Father is Always Exclusively for his Daughter

“A parable: a king once had a daughter who was good, sweet, lovely, and perfect. He married her to a royal prince, and clothed, crowned, and bejeweled her, giving her much wealth. Is it possible for the king to ever leave his daughter? You must say no. Is it possible for him to be with her constantly? You must say no. What then must he do? He places a screen between the two, and whenever the father needs his daughter, or the daughter needs her father, they can come together through this screen [cf. Shemot Rabbah 52:5]. Therefore it is written: All the princess’s treasure is inward, filigree of gold her raiment (Psalms 45:14)” (Bahir §54).

“From where [is it known] Abraham had a daughter? As is written, And YHWH had blessed Abraham בַּכֹּל (ba-kol), in all things (Genesis 24:1) [see BT Bava Batra 16b; cf. ibid., 25a]. It is also written, כֹּל (kol), All—called by שְׁמִי (shemi), My name: for My glory I have created him, I have formed him; yea, I have made him (Isaiah 43:7) [cf. Berit MenuḥaIntroduciton]. Was this blessing his daughter or not? Yes, it was his daughter.

A parable: A king had a servant who was innocent and perfect before him. He tested him with many trials and he endured them all [see Jubilees 17:17; 19:8; M Avot 5:3; Avot de-Rabbi Natan A, 33; B, 36; Midrash Tehillim 18:25; Pirqei de-Rabbi Eli’ezer 26]. The king said, ‘What will I give to this servant? What shall I do for him? There is nothing for me but to entrust him to my older brother [possibly Sandalfon], that he counsel him, guard him, and honor him.’ The servant returned with the older brother and learned his qualities. The brother loved him very much, and called him his lover, as is written, the seed of Abraham, My lover (Isaiah 41:8) [cf. Sefer Yetsirah §61 ad loc.]. He said, ‘What shall I give him? What shall I do for him? Behold I have made a lovely vessel, and in it are lovely jewels. There is nothing like them [in] treasuries of kings. I will give it to him, and he will be worthy in his place.’ This is, And YHWH blessed Abraham in all things” (Bahir §78).

“The Rabbis have taught: בַּכֹּל (ba-kol) (Genesis 24:1)—Abraham’s daughter, is not dead. She still exists, and whoever sees her has made a great find, as is said: [I, all my lovers I love,] and my seekers do find me (Proverbs 8:17)” (Mirash ha-Gadol).

“[Elijah] opened and said, [Moses] Faithful Shepherd, the blessed Holy One gave this bride of yours [Shekhinahהַכַּלָה (ha-kalah), the Bride, alluding to הֲלָכָה (Halakhah)] to Abraham to bring up for you. And since he kept her she is called his daughter. This is what is meant by the saying that ‘Abraham had a daughter named בַּכֹּל (Bakol)’ (BT Bava Batra 16b). By her he observed the whole Torah ‘Even to the עֵירוּבֵי תַּבְשִׁילִין (eruvei tavshilin), mixing of cooked dishes [a later rabbinic ordinance allowing one to cook on a holiday for the Sabbath]’ (BT Yoma 28b). This is the meaning of [Abraham has listened בְּקֹלִי (be-qoli), to My voice] And has kept My charge [My commandments, My statutes, and My teachings] (Genesis 26:5) [cf. Bahir §192]. And he brought her up, as written, And he brought up Hadassa (Esther 2:7). And the blessed Holy One blessed him for her sake, as written, YHWH had blessed Abraham in בַּכֹּל (ba-kol), all things (Genesis 24:1). He brought her up with every good quality and was kind to her. He raised her to greatness, with the quality of חֶסֶד (ḥesed), Loving-kindness, of Abraham. His house was, for her sake, wide open to do kindness to all the people of the world” (Zohar 3:277b, Ra’aya Meheimna Ki Tetse).

“Lower world does not arouse toward Upper World without the cherubim wafting fragrance toward the right. After they bestow aroma to the right, and the right arouses toward Upper World, at once Lower World arouses to petition for its needs. What is written? Rachel said to Leah, ‘Please give me’ (Genesis 30:14). Give me blessings from the arousal of mandrakes, aroused for you by the right side.

Then, Upper World joyfully, playfully, responded to her, saying, ‘Is your taking my husband a small thing?‘ (ibid. 30:15)—like a mother to her daughter. If so, the Husband of the Upper World must be Jacob! Not so! Yearning of the Father is always exclusively for his Daughter. His love is directed toward Her because She is the only daughter, among six sons [sefirot]. He doles out provisions, largesse, and gifts to each of those six sons—but He allocates nothing for Her, nor does She inherit anything. On account of all this, He watches over Her with greater fondness and love than all the rest.

Out of love for Her, He called Her ‘Daughter’ [cf. BT Bava Batra 16b]. This did not satisfy Him, so He called Her ‘Sister’ [cf. Genesis 20:1; Proverbs 7:4; Song of Songs 4:9, 10, 12; 5:1, 2]. This did not satisfy Him, so He called Her ‘Mother,’ in the name of His Mother [cf. Proverbs 2:3; BT Berakhot 57a]. This did not satisfy Him, so He called Her by His name, as is written: But הַחָכְמָה (ḥokhmah), Wisdom, found from אַיִן (ayin), Nothing (Job 28:12)—Ḥokhmah, actually! This is why Upper World said to Her, ‘Is your taking my husband a small thing‘—for all of His love is drawn toward You” (Zohar 1:156a–b, Sitrei Torah, cf. Pesiqta de-Rav Kahana 1:3; Shemot Rabbah 52:5; Shir ha-Shirim Rabbah on 3:11; Zohar 2:100b).